Gender Metaphysics: There Are Still Only Two! (Maelinhon)

FAQ on how Eastern metaphysics builds gender, sex and orientation of a person (and not only that…).

The world has gone a little crazy about sexes and genders lately, and believe me, I am not going to turn on the scandalous old woman and grumble that “they have come up with a lot of abominations, not like before, ugh…”. No. I understand perfectly well how difficult it is for people and non-people to find themselves, especially in the absence of clear information and in the presence of an excess of contradictory and unclear information. And even harmful. Let’s put it on our fingers: how does metaphysics and the energy of the body essentially build gender, sex and orientation? Who are we drawn to, why are sex and gender not particularly connected and why will most people always be heterosexuals.

The Universe in which humans live is divided into two polarities. No, not Good and Evil, this is a substitution of concepts from bad non-humans. Polarities of Yin and Yang. And if we put aside philosophy and abstruseness, then in practice this is simply a division of all (all!) objects and particles that make up objects, into two groups. In physics, particles are divided into classes depending on their habits, and here it is absolutely the same: both groups are not equal to sex or gender, they are simply a type and class of particles with certain behavior patterns. Simply put, Yin is not a woman, but a type and basic strategy of behavior.

Since our body, its organs and systems, the psyche and its spheres and everything around us consists of particles of the elements, then absolutely any object in the Universe accessible to humans can be classified as either a boy or a girl. This is how the world is structured, a competent metaphysician will tell you, there are only 2 polarities in it and a gradient between them. And if we look at the natal chart of any dimut, built according to the eastern system of metaphysics, we will see that it is all divided into 2, and the body and the conditional soul. Accordingly, each organ of this body, depending on its position and behavior, will also be either a boy or a girl. And they are about half.

How it works.

The “boy” particles are large, noisy, bright, open, they are visible and audible, they glow and burn, go forward and pave the way. They are solid. They are rational, they are devoid of feelings and emotions, everything is logical for them, and logic requires evidence and rational foundations for everything. Yang spectrum is the sun, it is a spherical man in a vacuum – imagine a completely stereotypical boor, without feelings, without cunning, without grace – this is Yang in its purest form, although such animals are almost never found in nature. Accordingly, everything Yang will be outside, in plain sight and it will make rational noise. These are the organs of the body, and the zones of the psyche, and the spheres of life.

The “girl” particles are small, quiet, they cannot be seen without certain conditions, they are hidden inside, they are dark, cold, sensual and living with emotions. Emotions have logic, but it is irrational, as is female behavior. Accordingly, the Yin spectrum of particles is all internal, secret, hidden, cunning, even insidious. And soft. Imagine a kind of stereotypical femme fatale, who is not just with secrets and a twist, but a real cake woman. These animals in their pure form are also not found in nature, but will do for illustration.

And now quantum metaphysics and all the genders that exist come into play. Your body, no matter who you were born with according to the configuration of your genitals, is a balanced system, where normally 50% is a girl and 50% is a boy. You have a man’s back, a man’s nose, and a love for tinkering with technology growing in your brain – this is the uncle spectrum. It is outside, it is obvious, it leads and behaves like a part made up of man-particles. And for example, the liver, soft tummy and hot fanaticism for anime – this is the female spectrum, these parts of you behave like girls, regardless of your physical gender. This is such an energetic paradox of a girl in a boy, although in fact it is more of a classic, when a person has a mixture of energies.

The point of a comfortable existence is to find a balance for yourself in all of this.

Little children are all alike because they are still in the middle position. Their psyche, mind and body are 50×50. As we grow up, we change, get traumas, experience, get to know ourselves better, study and develop our tastes, etc. And this blanket begins to creep in one direction, that is, in our psyche there is either more of a boy or more of a girl. But never 100\0, normally these are balances like 80 Yang and 20 Yin for men and vice versa for women, and like any “middle class”, there are most of them. But not everyone is like that. There are women who, due to experience, trauma and/or profession, have to behave more like Yang. There are sensual, cunning men who are more emotional than logical, and their behavior spectrum creeps into Yin. That is, the number of “girl” particles in the psyche simply prevails over the male ones, and this indicator can change throughout life and even during the day. In the morning at work he is a cool boss, and in the evening at home he is a kind dad, baking pies and playing with his daughter with dolls.

What is normal? Nothing is normal, there is simply no normal. Gender is an internal sense of this balance, nothing more. If you draw a conditional range from uncle to aunt and divide it into 100 cells, then any proportion of the spectrum, except for the extreme like 100\0, is normal. And 45\55, and 80\20, and 30\70 and even 50\50, and whatever else. That is, gender is a proportion out of a hundred, and not a choice of two. This is such a quantum metaphysics and energetic entanglement.

But gender, my young padawans, is a choice of two, do not confuse all this, because you yourself will get confused and ruin the lives of others.

You know what the problem is? The problem is that people do not perceive their soul and their subtle being as themselves. They associate themselves only with the body in the mirror, and the body in the pants always has a certain configuration that does not always match how the unit feels. And here lies a gigantic logical abyss: there is a skippy in pants, but the psyche is very Yin.

The point of this whole circus is to find BALANCE and live in it. You are given a certain, almost random configuration of flesh parameters, like in a computer game, and you need to squeeze out of it the maximum of goodies and comfort. That is, no operations, no surgical sex changes and other nonsense at all – this is not included in either balance or comfort. This category of citizens has a lot of problems precisely because the balance needs to be reduced in the psyche and in the head, and they are trying to do it in the body. And when it does not converge (and it will not converge), many go out the window, because it turns out that all the suffering was in vain. Well, why? Each dimut has a double set of organs to live an intimate life either this way or that, and to get pleasure depending on the given configuration. All this flesh has about the same attitude to gender and personality as I have to ballet, that is, absolutely nothing. You can calmly have sex with whoever you want and you don’t need to cripple yourself for this. Think a little bigger than “this” or “that”.

Why dual? Look, if organs are divided by polarities, then both men and women have external and internal genitals, there are hard and soft parts of these organs. That is, a woman’s clitoris will be a Yang organ, and the vagina will be Yin (one is outside and conditionally hard, the second is inside and soft, hollow), and a man’s prostate and internal parts of the genitals will be Yin, and the penis will be a Yang organ (it is hard and external). All this is balanced in balance, and if something from this is cut off or sewn, the balance collapses. Two is a normal division for flesh, provided by both hormones and the energy of the body and described in Eastern and Western medicine. Don’t touch it, work with what’s in your head, because you, this is a microcosm, your metaphysics is in your head, not in your panties or a mirror.

Sexual orientation is also a complicated thing, but it stems from the same thing. If we have a pair of dimutes, each with its own balance, then they should always complement each other in proportion. We will always be drawn to the one who balances us and who has more of what we lack. If one partner has 20 Yang and 80 Yin, then he will be drawn to those who have 80 to 20 in the opposite direction. And this again has nothing to do with flesh, that’s what bad luck it is. And it turns out that in the majority (note, I don’t say the word “normal”) girls will still be with boys, because the middle in any spectrum is always the most, that is, the majority will still be hetero, no matter what the world around is. Simply because women usually have more Yin, and men have more Yang, and when they are looking for a partner, they intuitively reach out to the one who has more of what they themselves lack. The further from the middle of the spectrum to some edge, the fewer representatives there are, so it is technically impossible for everyone to become homo- or hetero-, it will always be a gradient. Because personalities and their proportions are unique and do not resemble dolls.

By the way, this is why all sorts of business women are often lonely: she herself, in fact, is a man. In a spectrum of 100 points, she has nowhere to squeeze in a man who himself has 90 points of the Yang spectrum, and more than 100 does not happen. And it turns out that the more manly this fighter behaves and feels, the weaker men are interested in her, they have exactly 10 Yang, more will not fit into this proportion. It’s like a bottle in which only 10 ml is free.

It’s all really not that complicated. It’s just that when the world gets at least some freedom in this direction, and there’s no information, we have those who hysterically scream that he’s not a man, but a combat helicopter. Not a woman, but some kind of middle substance, with which he even has linguistic problems to call it somehow. No, guys, it doesn’t work like that and it’s absolutely not normal. Look in your pants: is it soft and almost everything is inside? Your flesh is a girl. Not you, but your body, I emphasize for those who still don’t get it. Large organs, relatively hard and everything on the outside? Congratulations, you’re a boy, and again this doesn’t characterize your PERSONALITY. These are just organs for intimate life and/or childbearing.

Treat your body as a configuration of flesh that has very little time left to live, do not spoil it prematurely, this has never brought anyone happiness. Find a balance in your behavior, orientation and internal sense of yourself, make the energy of your body pleasant to you, this will be right from any point of view. You are not what you see in the mirror, not your dense body and especially not your genitals. And not even a social role. You are what or how you feel inside, in your head, what your subtle body is. And there everyone has their own norm and it is not brought in from the outside.

(c) Mylene Maelinhon / Material of the Marginal Metaphysics project

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